Ever since I read The Secret I have become a big believer in positive thinking. The basic premise is that you have to think positive thoughts in order to attract positive events and positive people. If you think about it, it makes sense. If you are the bad-vibes girl, then people will avoid you like the plague, and if you are not friends with people, they won’t be able to help you out or help you learn something or point you toward opportunities. If you think you’ll fail, then that lack of confidence will show, and this will contribute to your failure.